| Why is texting one of the greatest tools for flirting | | | | Law #2 - Keep it light, fun and un-needy |
| and building attraction? | | | | You're probably very fond of the stressful feeling of |
| Well, first think about everything that goes into | | | | trying to send the right text message to someone |
| building attraction with someone in the real world. | | | | you like?!? You've also probably sent text messages |
| Such as your hair, eyes, smell, confidence, words, | | | | and immediately after sending them, you thought of |
| timing, clothes, witty remarks, and the list goes on. I | | | | something that would have been better to send, |
| call these attraction triggers. Now, it's hard to build | | | | right? That's because you cared way too much |
| attraction with someone in the real world because | | | | about what you were sending and it came across in |
| you have to account for every attraction trigger or | | | | your message. If you relax, and truly understand that |
| else you will be unsuccessful in your dating. So | | | | there are plenty of fish in the sea, then you will send |
| basically, the less attraction triggers you have to deal | | | | light and fun messages that don't say, "please write |
| with the better your chances of being successful in | | | | back, i need you!!!" |
| building attraction and interest. Texting does just that. | | | | Law #3 - Choose words that build attraction not |
| All you have to account for is words and timing and | | | | friendship |
| that's it. You text the right words at the right time | | | | Words are the most powerful influence in anyone's |
| and you can expect to triple or double your success | | | | life. It determines where you stand in any relationship |
| in dating. I have seen it happen hundreds of times. | | | | and how strong that relationship is going to be. Now, |
| Flirting is the key to getting the ball rolling in the right | | | | I can't just give you a bunch of words to text |
| direction. It's the unnecessary, but crucial part in | | | | because it would take a lot more than just an article |
| building attraction. One of your main purposes when | | | | to explain everything (However, if you want a ton of |
| texting is to flirt. I'm going to share with you the 3 | | | | proven text messages that work you should |
| most important laws that you must follow whenever | | | | definitely get the ebook "The Ultimate Texting |
| you are flirting in your text messages. | | | | Guide." It teaches you exactly what to text to be |
| Law #1 - Build suspense with timing (ten minute rule) | | | | successful with women.) |
| You must, at times, build suspense when text | | | | What I can do is give you tips that help you |
| messaging. It creates the roller coaster effect in your | | | | construct more flirty text messages. That is, "text to |
| text messages. I always teach the ten minute rule to | | | | build attraction not friendship." Men fail big time here |
| people that are just getting started in texting... which | | | | because they are so used to sending friendly |
| is, "never send a text message within ten minutes of | | | | messages and they carry that style into their text |
| a vulnerable text message." In other words, if the | | | | messages with women. What you're first going to do |
| person text messages you something that makes | | | | is, before you ever send the message, read it and at |
| them vulnerable such as, "ya I'll come over, what | | | | the best of your emotional awareness, feel if it's a |
| time?" or "what are you doing tonight?", you need to | | | | friendly message or if it's a message that is building |
| hold them in that uneasy (vulnerable) place for ten | | | | interest (attraction.) Once you understand the |
| minutes before giving the relief that everything is | | | | difference more clearly, you will become a lot more |
| cool with you. | | | | successful with flirting and being desired. |
| It's kind of like when you lose your keys or wallet. At | | | | Key point for men: you need to send messages that |
| first, it's not too bad and you start looking. Then, as | | | | make women feel something. For example, let's |
| time goes on, you become more frantic and you | | | | change those last messages to something more flirty: |
| start feeling uneasy inside. After about ten minutes, | | | | "Hey honey" "I was just in class and the teacher |
| you are in a stressed-out state and you wish they | | | | there reminded me of you, except she was cuter." |
| would just appear! When you finally find them, you | | | | "Hey, we're heading to a party, you should come?" |
| get this rush of relief and you feel really good | | | | You don't get on a roller coaster because it's boring, |
| because of the suspense and possibility of not finding | | | | you get on it because you know you're going to feel |
| them. Apply this same rule in your text messages. | | | | something - she will text you and desire you if you |
| Build suspense at times. | | | | can create that same feeling. |