A Guide To Kids' Communication - For Parents

When it comes to communication, times havetimes.
definitely changed. When we were kids, talking toAnother way kids talk to each other without actually
each other meant an occasional phone call, or waitingspeaking is via text message. This form of chatting
until we saw each other in school the next day. Now,requires a teen (or even a younger child) to have a
teens and even younger children have access to socell phone equipped with text messaging software
many forms of communication that they are neverand service. Text messaging services can be bundled
at a loss to talk to each other. Chatting via instantwith your regular cell phone service, or they can be
messenger, email and even cell phone text messagesan additional fee-based service (where you are
are all commonplace for today's youth - but whatcharged either per text or a flat fee per month).
does all of this technology mean for parents? HereText messaging offers kids a way to send short
are some facts you should know about the way kidsmessages to each other via the cell phone, but does
talk with each other.not require actually speaking on the phone. While this
Chances are, you have a computer that's hooked upcan be good for occasional use, sometimes kids get
to the Internet in your home. This means that youra bit caught up text messaging and can either run up
children have the ability to talk to their friends vialarge bills or disrupt their classes in school. If you are
email (electronic mail) or instant messaging programs.planning to let your child use text messaging on their
If kids want to talk to each other in real time, instantcell phone, it's important to teach them about proper
messaging is the way to go - users just download ausage.
simple program (two popular ones are AOL InstantToday's youth has many more choices when it
Messenger and Yahoo! Messenger) and they are ablecomes to staying in touch - and while this can be a
to type messages to each other as long as bothgood thing, it may also be disruptive to important
parties have the program. This form ofaspects of their lives such as school work. As a
communication can be great for keeping in touch withparent, be sure to make your child aware of proper
friends, but can also invite unwanted strangers to trycomputer and cell phone usage, and keep yourself
to talk with your children. It's important to make sureinformed about your child's activities both on line and
you know what your kids are doing on line at allin real life.