| Flirting through text messaging isn't much more | | | | As in real life, women and men differ when it comes |
| different than flirting in real life... It's just easier. | | | | to text messaging. So guess who does the |
| Women | | | | approaching? Yes, men. Us men get the number and |
| Most people will say that women have it easy when | | | | then we initiate the conversation. After years of |
| it comes to texting. That's because men do the | | | | coaching men on how to be successful with women, |
| approaching... and women probably send 100 times | | | | I have concluded that most men have no clue about |
| more text messages than men which makes women | | | | how to text women. |
| better at communicating. | | | | What usually happens is that most men when they |
| Now here's where girls goof up: sending boring | | | | text women go into default mode and send |
| one-liners. For example, if a guy sends a message to | | | | messages to women like they are sending messages |
| a woman like, "Hey what up, did you go over to that | | | | to friends. Men burn themselves by sending these |
| party last night?" He can almost expect 50% of the | | | | normal, day-to-day conversation words like "how are |
| time she is going to answer with a one-line answer | | | | you?" "I am out of class, that teacher was boring." |
| that has no question attached to it. For example: "No | | | | "What are you doing?" These messages are boring, |
| I didn't." That kind of answer is considered boring and | | | | they do nothing to women and your success with |
| leads to nothing. Really, the cell phone should block | | | | them goes down the drain. |
| those messages and return the message saying "put | | | | Key point for men: you need to send messages that |
| some life into your message." The worst part is, | | | | make women feel something. For example: let's |
| most of these women are ruining their chances and | | | | change those last messages to something more |
| they don't even know it. Any quality guy will move | | | | flirty... "Hey honey" "I was just in class and the |
| on to more interesting conversations. Now, if a | | | | teacher there reminded me of you, except she was |
| woman had a good response to that message it | | | | cuter." "Hey we are heading to a party, you should |
| would look something like this: "Maybe. I didn't want | | | | come?" You don't get on a roller coaster because it's |
| to make you jealous." You see, now the guy can | | | | boring, you get on it because you know you are |
| respond and start building off what you're saying, but | | | | going to feel something. A woman will text you and |
| most importantly, it's FLIRTY! | | | | desire you if you can create that same roller coaster |
| Men | | | | feeling. |